Men in Romance: What’s In a Name? by TJ Klune

  Men in Romance is a series of posts focusing on the various experiences and perspectives of men who write romance. Read more from this series here.   Back in the spring of 2011, I was bright-eyed and bushy-tailed, completely unaware of what being published actually meant. I had submitted my first book to a publisher—with the odd title of Bear, Otter, and the Kid—and it had been accepted. I was in a state of shock, unsure of how it had happened, a majority of me convinced that it was…

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Men in Romance: Mountaineers in Love by Jeff Mann

Men in Romance is a series of posts focusing on the various experiences and perspectives of men who write romance. Read more from this series here.   I’m both flattered and bemused by the opportunity to write a post for Men in Romance. When I try to imagine a typical romance writer, I envision the hysterically funny Matt Lucas on Little Britain portraying Dame Sally Markham, a character based on Dame Barbara Cartland.  Dame Sally—an obese elderly woman with a silvery hairdo, dressed in pearls and an elegant pink gown—sprawls…

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Men in Romance: Wary of the Uncanny Man by Steve Berman

Men in Romance is a series of posts focusing on the various experiences and perspectives of men who write romance. Read more from this series here. We must remember one of the oldest adages: beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Writers must be obsessive with details, of course. We must hone our imagination as much as we hone our skill with words. And we must hone our eye for details. Yet, too often I happen upon the most un-detailed of men. Where? Not in my bed, not in…

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Men in Romance: M in a W M4M World by Edmond Manning

Men in Romance is a series of posts focusing on the various experiences and perspectives of men who write romance. Read more from this series here. I’ve been avoiding writing this guest blog post for weeks, though almost daily, I’ve been ruminating.  It takes a lot of effort to ruminate. Big Author Word. In some ways, this seems like a no-win topic. Whenever a gay man discusses being a writer in a woman-dominated genre, discussion often intensifies into a “who belongs here” argument. Let’s skip to its resolution: women belong…

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